Girls, what should i do about my girlfriend’s “problems” (plz read the details of the question)?

Question by Ron Paul: Girls, what should i do about my girlfriend’s “problems” (plz read the details of the question)?
My gf and I are 21, both in college. Been going out for almost a year now. But at the end of last semester, she pledged for a sorority; and she’s made some “sisters” I’m not particularly fond of (not because of any personal dislike though). She’s become overly ambitious in terms of self-image, instead of being content (which she was in the past). She wants everyone in college to like her. She thinks every little problem she has f*cks up her life. She has a great family, great family and I care about her: I tell her all that (and that should be good enough for her) when she wants reassurances from me (almost an everyday event now).

We’ve been going out for a year now, and this has been happening since almost 5 months. She just seems really insecure about the smallest of things, about herself: and I want her to be happy with herself; although I do comfort her when she needs it, and I always try to be there for her. I try to surprise her, make her laugh; do fun stuff, but shes too exhausted with 21 credits and pledging to have fun with. I don’t enforce anything on her though. I havent even had sex with her because she doesnt want to right now. She thinks I have it easy, (although i’m not pledging) but I do have to work 20 hours per week on campus. I only once suggested to her: either drop a class, or get outta the sorority. But she hasnt done either.

Best answer:

Answer by Sarah S
Tell her she’s “too busy” for you, and leave, unless you really really want to put up with this crap forever. Her self-image was obviously a problem before she joined the sorority, you just didn’t see it since it was early on in the relationship. This girl is just going to get more clingy and more needy as time goes on. Just remember: You can’t help those that won’t help themselves first.

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